Just a gut check
Someone once commented "you can tell you're sucking in" well..yahhhh, I always am contracting my abs in - it's a good habit to contract your abs throughout your day! And yah, I contract when I look at myself in the mirror ..even when I'm all alone️.
I say, let's do what makes us feel good about ourselves & let's not care what anyone thinks of that;they do not know our struggles & what we've overcome! I'm not trying to impress anyone but myself